About Marriage

I got some interesting email from some friends - about marriage.
Some jokes, actually- but i've heard from older people, including my parents about how people always change after they got married. Not as much romantic or caring as when they were in a relationship.

Would everybody will experience the same thing ?
Isn't marriage supposed to be a point where they start new life full of happiness and love sharing moments ? Or a new start point of a bunch of problems ?

Why am I married ?

You have two choices in life:
You can stay single and be miserable,
or get married and wish you were dead.

At a cocktail party, one woman said to another,
"Aren't you wearing your wedding ring on the wrong
finger?"
"Yes, I am. I married the wrong man."

A lady inserted an ad in the classifieds:
"Husband Wanted".
Next day she received a hundred letters.
They all said the same thing:
"You can have mine."

When a woman steals your husband,
there is no better revenge than to let her keep him.

A little boy asked his father,
"Daddy, how much does it cost to get married?"
Father replied, "I don't know son, I'm still paying."

A young son asked,
"Is it true Dad, that in some parts of Africa
a man doesn't know his wife until he marries her?"
Dad replied, "That happens in every country, son."

Then there was a woman who said,
"I never knew what real happiness was until I got
married,
and by then, it was too late."

Just think, if it weren't for marriage, men would
go through life thinking they had no faults at all.

First guy says, "My wife's an angel!"
Second guy remarks, "You're lucky, mine's still
alive."

" A Woman's Prayer:
Dear Lord, I pray for: Wisdom, To understand a man
, to Love and to forgive him , and for patience,
For his moods. Because Lord, if I pray for
Strength I'll just beat him to death "

I don't know the answer yet - but this is quite a sarcastic and funny joke.I know there's got to be an explanation why either we(women) or them(men) change . I still want to get married though :) hehe

Its one of the biggest dream i had- to dress in white, walking down the aisle - holding on my loved one arms and standing facing each other- vowing to love each other for the rest of life.

It would be the most beautiful moment in my future life.

Here some other joke i got in diffrent email :

Husband and wife are waiting at the bus stop with
their nine children. A blind man joins them after
a few minutes. When the bus arrives, they find it
overloaded and only the wife and the nine kids are
able to fit onto the bus.

So the husband and the blind man decide to walk.
After a while, the husband gets irritated by the
ticking of the stick of the blind man as he taps
it on the sidewalk, and says to him, "Why don't
you put a piece of rubber at the end of your
stick? That ticking sound is driving me crazy."

The blind man replies, "If you would've put a
rubber at the end of YOUR stick, we'd be riding
the bus ... so shut the hell up."

LOL!

Serendipity : Do you believe in destiny ?

After watching a horror movie, The Wig, i think i hav to watch another movie, the relaxing one...hmm like romantic movie :D So i checked out my dvd collection and looking for a good movie to watch. Again, i picked Serendipity, the best romantic movie i've ever watched. I think i've watched tat movie many many times already.

Serendipity. A story about a man and a woman who met because of destiny, they met , apart and met again in a very impossible way. I wish i could experience such a romantic love story in my life.

'everything happens in this life for reasons'

We meet so many people in life. Bad people, Good people, bad boyfriend, good boyfriend (hehe)- and that makes our life more valueable, more colourful :D dont you think ?

Here some new pictures i took recently of my stuff - Popo, my new black doll. Kyle named it Popo ( That's a lovely name :P thanks) and my Orchid , its a Moon Orchid i've been planting since new year.

Popo
Cute Black doll

Moon Orchid
Now blooming so beautifully

Valentine's Kitty

Yesterday was Valentine's day. I went to school for some final project brief at the library and then stayed at home for the rest of the day.

And Yes, i didn't have any plans going out with anybody- so i spent the whole day to treat myself with the spa wisdom ritual at the bathroom :) - and it feels great for my body and mind-float away into dream time, and i call it Relaxing Detox.

I got a valentine's gift from my best friend Listy, a cutie kitty handmade :) and i put it together with my keys. I love it so much- and realy thanks to you,Listy. I really treasure it!

aw, so cute !

June's Birthstone and Birthflowers

As i was looking for a valentine gift idea, which i never gave any- I discovered about my own birthstone, Pearl. It's a beautiful miracle stone created by sea creature. Sometimes i dont believe if Clam actually produces pearl, i mean... how do they make it? Like eggs ????
But ... i dont care . They look great anyways.

Here're some pearl jewellery i found on internet Red Envelope

And This last XOXO pearls bracelets jus look fabulous !

And for those who were born in June, our birthflower are Rose. Isnt it so Romantic and Hot?

Big Feast !

Big Feast for Chinese new Year dinner !
Cant say more . . . One word - Fattening !
I gained weight about 3 kgs since i got back to my hometown.


p.s. I made the Salad and it tasted GREAT!

2-years-old Photographer

Another great experiece i had in my hometown, meeting my niece. Whitney is my closest cousin,Roni's 2-years-old daugther.I met her when my dad picked her up and my aunt too to go to the chuch for second service in the first week im in Samarinda.

She's really cute and adorable. but very shy at the first time she met me. Finally it took weeks getting to know her closer until she wants to call me " kuku ai en" >< I played with her all day when her parents and brother left for Singapore. I heard that she had been crying all day when they left her. So i went to her place. I think she enjoyed the time we spent together, playing cooking stuff and yeah, she was so playing with my cellphone too. I took some pics of her and us together.

Look how cute she is ! with the pringles she's about to give to my dad.
Actually, she looks like my aunt to0 (her grandma)

And here when the 2-years-old photographer trying to take pics of me :P hehe.. I was quite afraid she will throw my cellphone away cus she thought it was a toy ^ ^

The Big House and The Dogs

I went back to Samarinda for a couple of weeks... i have no time for blogging when i was there.
so let me share some of my experience :)

Everytime we come back to Samarinda, we always arrived at Balikpapan airport, Sepinggan.This time i went back hometown with some of my aunties, and my cousin :P. And we dropped by at my auntie's friend's house.She's so incredibly rich and the house was really big- and its by the beach. Its really a nice house but too big for my camera to catch the whole house in one picture. So i tried to put 3 pictures into one using photoshop and i think its not that bad.

The other thing i found out in that house that, she has a lot of dogs here and there. She even paid a maid to take care all of the dogs.I was so excited seeing so many dogs, with the new born pups as well so that i couldnt help myself but taking as many pictures as i want.

Oh yah,
have i mentioned that she had a private salon, and hired some hairstylist to do her hair and the family's on Sunday morning ? And she owns the land from her place until 100 metres to the beach. I never thought that there's a rich family like them.
I wish she gave me one of the cute poodle puppy ><